A while back I had the opportunity to meet two amazing moms, Holly
Homer and Rachel Miller.
They are the authors of 101 Kids Activities That Are the Bestest, Funnest Ever!: The Entertainment Solution for Parents, Relatives & Babysitters!
My boys and I have just barely scratched the surface of all the activities in this book but we love what we have done so far! And it got me thinking...the best part of these activities is that they give us a chance to slow down and do things as a family.
Lately, I have been struggling to be there for them both physically and emotionally. I get caught up in the daily responsibilities of working, blogging, housekeeping, cooking. (Well... to be honest that last one is not my strong suit!) Anyway, I tend to overcompensate for my physical and emotional absence by buying the boys things or taking them places when in reality all they want is to be with me.
In speaking with other educators throughout my career, I think most of us struggle with "mommy guilt" from time to time. It's part of our teaching nature to try to be enough for every child in our lives, both our kids and our students.
My boys and I have just barely scratched the surface of all the activities in this book but we love what we have done so far! And it got me thinking...the best part of these activities is that they give us a chance to slow down and do things as a family.
Lately, I have been struggling to be there for them both physically and emotionally. I get caught up in the daily responsibilities of working, blogging, housekeeping, cooking. (Well... to be honest that last one is not my strong suit!) Anyway, I tend to overcompensate for my physical and emotional absence by buying the boys things or taking them places when in reality all they want is to be with me.
In speaking with other educators throughout my career, I think most of us struggle with "mommy guilt" from time to time. It's part of our teaching nature to try to be enough for every child in our lives, both our kids and our students.
Holly & Rachel’s book has given us the opportunity to do simple, fun, memorable activities together. As a result of them giving me a copy of their book, I thought I would pay it forward
by giving another copy of the book to someone else.
My son’s first grade teacher also has two small boys. As part of her Christmas gift, I created this gift basket
along with Rachel & Holly’s book.
Inside the book, I attached this special note:
I also shared this concept with our youngest son's daycare provider. She doesn’t have any little ones herself but she does have many little daycare buddies that love
doing little projects so I pulled together all sorts of seasonal crafts (with a little help from Hobby Lobby.)
And placed them in a santa gift bag with this special
note.
We took the gift to daycare on the 1st of
December so the kids would have the whole month to make their creations. Then
at the end of the month, they can be sent home in a gift bag from my little
Payton!
So fun and purposeful! Not just a trinket or two from the
dollar store, but special decorations and memories from daycare. :)
Finally, one final special gift that will be given to friends and family this holiday. Just a little something to remind everyone what really counts throughout the season...a wrapped box of chocolates!
With a note on the outside that says ‘Wishing you Many Memories with Friends and Family this Holiday Season! From: The McDaniels' ".
And a photo of my boys glued to the wrapping of the chocolates that says "The best
present you can give is the gift of presence."
I wish you all many holiday memories full of presence and love!
Merry Christmas,
Lindy
Hand made gifts are really so cool. They are attractive and memorable one too.
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